Guest information

Questions and answers

Practical answers for guests will be collected here.

Can I bring a plus one?

No, to keep our guest list manageable, invitations are limited to the individuals listed. We regret that we are unable to extend additional invitations at this time.

What time should I arrive?

Ceremony will start at 3:00pm. We kindly suggest arrival time to be 2:00pm.

Are there any colors guests should avoid wearing?

Yes, we kindly ask guests to avoid sage green, taupe, and brown-toned suit colors, as these will be worn by the grooms.

What is the dress code?

The dress code is formal. Tuxedo or black tie is not mandatory.

What is the best way to get to the barn?

There are multiple ways to arrive at the barn depending on where you are coming from. Please check our Directory to see more detailed information.

Are gifts expected?

If you wish to give a gift, we are grateful for your thoughtfulness, but it is not required. Due to different cultural customs, we have put together a Gift section should you wish to contribute.

Can I take pictures?

During the ceremony, we kindly ask you to avoid taking pictures so you can live the moment with us in real life and not through your phone. After the ceremony, we invite you to take pictures and videos. There will also be a photo booth, so have fun.

Will drinks be provided?

Yes. A variety of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages will be available for guests to enjoy during the reception and wedding breakfast. A tab will also be available during the evening party. Please be aware that once the tap is closed, any additional drinks will be at your own cost. Note: We want everyone to have fun and celebrate with us, but we also kindly ask everyone to drink responsibly and behave respectfully.

What time will the celebration end?

The party will conclude at 11:30pm, with last orders at 11:00pm. If you are travelling back to London, please note that the last train to Waterloo departs from Farnham at 11:00pm.